Sunday, September 3, 2017

Ordinary Time 22 - September 3, 2017


Homily for September 3, 2017

Twenty-Second Sunday in Ordinary Time

Character Over Comfort

 

            The Carmelite religious order was supposed to be an order of priests and nuns who practiced fasting, penance, and intense prayer – but by the 16th century, they had become very lax. Instead of praying, they spent their time in idle gossip; instead of fasting, they practiced gluttony amidst considerable wealth. A reform had to be initiated, and a young nun with a powerful personality, St. Theresa of Avila, felt called by the Holy Spirit to begin reforming the Carmelite order.

            But of course no one likes to be told that they are wrong, so she faced opposition everywhere she went. Many Carmelite monasteries refused to welcome her; abbesses fought with her; the other nuns gossiped about her. In all, it was a difficult mission!

            One day she was riding a horse to get to another monastery, praying desperately and frustrated about her mission. As the horse was crossing a river, it got startled and bucked, throwing St. Theresa of Avila into the river, fully clothed. As she got up, soaked and covered in mud, she famously prayed aloud, “Lord, if this is how You treat Your friends, it’s no wonder You have so few!”

            Many people expect God to make their life easier. Back in 2005, two researchers studied the spiritual lives of American teenagers, and they concluded that most teens thought that God’s job was to make them feel good. They called this “moralistic therapeutic deism” – basically the belief that God exists, but He doesn’t interfere with us on a daily basis unless we need Him to solve some problem or take away some pain.

            Sadly, though, many adults treat God in the same way. God, why don’t you heal my mother? God, why am I out of a job? God, take away all my suffering…and then when He doesn’t we often start to question if God exists, if He cares, if He loves us.

            But what if making life easy isn’t God’s job? In today’s Gospel, Peter wants Jesus to choose the easy way – “Lord, since you really are the Messiah, just bypass the Cross! What good does suffering entail?” But Jesus rebukes Peter and then proceeds to reveal the truth – that following Him will, necessarily, involve suffering.

            The Protestant pastor Rick Warren said, “God is more interested in your character than your comfort.” In other words, the goal of life is not to live an easy, suffering-free life. The goal of life is to be transformed into Christ. And often, that transformation comes through suffering.

            I hope we can all point to the good that has come from a difficult situation. I know that from some of my greatest suffering, I matured a lot, grew in compassion and humility, and learned to trust God more. It’s never easy, but it is the only path to becoming holy.

            Consider this example – how is a statue carved from marble? Think about Michaelangelo’s “David” or the “Pieta”. It’s necessary to chip away all of the pieces of marble that are not part of the statue. But what if the marble block could talk and feel? It would say, “Stop! Stop this hammering, this chipping! It hurts! Look, I am losing so much – nothing good can come from this! Too much pain, too much loss!” And yet, when it is finished, it becomes a work of art.

            In the same way, the Father wants to form us into the image of Christ. But to do that, He needs to strip away all that is not Christ – all our selfishness, immaturities, pride, the lies we’ve grown to believe. This takes a complete reorientation of our life, though – to see everything through the lens of “is this making me more like Christ?” This suffering, that disappointment, this pleasure, that relationship – is it making me more like Christ? Because, in the end, isn’t that all that matters?

            The Cross is not an end in itself, just like death on the Cross was not the end for Jesus. For Jesus, the Cross led to the Resurrection, just as for us, suffering can lead to Jesus coming to life in and through us – if we unite our suffering to Christ’s, trust God through the storm, and learn the lessons of holiness that He wants to teach us.

            So do not seek an easy life. Seek a REAL life – one that comes from letting God form you, so that you become like Christ.

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