Ordinary Time 33 - The End of Our Worlds

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 33

November 17, 2024

The End of Your World

 

            Christians should always be ready to do three things: to pray, to share our faith, and to die.

            Our Gospel seems to speak about the end of the world. But then why does Jesus say that “some standing here will not taste death until they see these things”? No one living in Jesus’ day are still living now. But Jesus is speaking on two intertwining levels. He is speaking about the end of the world…but He is also speaking about another event which shook His listeners to their core.

            Exactly one generation (40 years) after Jesus’ death, Jewish leaders rebelled against Roman occupation. This sparked a war known as the First Jewish Revolt, which culminated in a disastrous event in 70AD – the complete destruction of the Temple of Jerusalem. It was the end of the world for the Jews – the very meeting-place of God, the location of the daily sacrifices, the pride and joy of an entire nation was leveled to the ground. To this day only one small part of the Temple remains, a small retaining wall called the Western Wall (or Wailing Wall), where Jews go to pray. It’s hard for us to understand just how devastating this event was for Israel – it’s as if the entire Vatican were destroyed and the Eucharist could no longer be celebrated ever, for two thousand years.

            But theologically, the destruction of the Temple made sense, as our second reading points out. The Temple was the place of sacrifice, but once Jesus’ sacrifice on the Cross was consummated, there is no need for further sacrifices. The Temple ended one world, because a new one was dawning – a world of faith in Jesus, the Son of God, the Perfect Sacrifice.

            So, although the world did not end in 70AD, in a sense their world did. Similarly, it is unlikely that you or I will get to see the end of the world (of course, I could be quite wrong about that!). But we are guaranteed to see the end of our world – at some point we will breathe our last, and death will end our world. Our life of faith in God will give way to the vision of God.

            I have always been haunted by those words in Daniel’s vision – “Those who sleep in the dust of the earth shall awake; some shall live forever, others shall be an everlasting horror and disgrace.” When that last breath is taken, will we live forever in the presence of God, or spend forever away from Him. At the end, there are only two eternal dwelling places for the soul – Heaven or Hell, glory or tragedy.

            We think so highly of our life when we are alive. King Louis XIV of France named himself “the Sun King”, saying, “I am the center of the universe, without equal.” But on his deathbed, he final words to his heir were, “Do not follow the bad example I have set.” How quickly does our life pass before we return to God Who made us! We ought to follow the advice of St. John Chrysostom who said, “Go to the grave, contemplate dust, and sigh.”

             So how ought a Christian prepare for the day when our world will end? Four suggestions to live a life worthy of a noble death and a happy eternity.

            First, contemplate frequently the shortness of life and the length of eternity. This is not a morbid fascination with death, but a proper appreciation of who we are and where we’re going. St. Bonaventure uses the example of a sailor. For a boat to get to its proper destination, a sailor always needs to keep his eyes looking in the right direction. Likewise, for a soul to make it to the safe harbor of Heaven, we must always keep that destination in mind, realizing that our life’s journey is actually heading in a direction. We’re not wandering aimlessly upon storm-tossed ocean – we are either heading to our eternal home, or heading away from it. Consider daily that life is short and this is not our home, and it will help point our life in the right direction.

            A second, connected, suggestion is to evaluate everything in the light of eternity. Will this decision advance me closer to eternity with God, or will it draw me further away? Will this music I listen to, this TV show I watch, draw me closer to God, or push me further away? When I am on my deathbed, will I regret what I posted on social media; will I regret the amount of time I spent on this hobby, to the detriment of my spiritual life; will I regret how this friendship led me astray; will I regret how much time I worried about my appearance or my bank account? Looking at our lives in the light of eternity makes us realize what’s truly important – love of God and love of neighbor – and what’s not important at all, like most of the things we worry about. As CS Lewis said, “Aim at Heaven and you will get earth 'thrown in'; aim at earth and you will get neither.”

            One time the brother of the great spiritual writer Thomas a Kempis built himself a luxurious house and filled it with all the finest luxuries money could buy. His holy brother visited him and said, “Ah, this is a beautiful house but it has only one flaw.” “What’s that?” asked the worldly brother. Thomas responded, “It has a door.” “A door? Why is that a flaw?” asked the brother, offended. The holy man replied, “Through this door your lifeless body will one day be carried, and you will leave this house forever. Where then will your treasure be?” Evaluate all things in light of eternity.

            A third way to prepare for a happy eternity is to go to confession regularly. St. John Chrysostom once said, “Nothing brings more happiness than a good conscience.” Imagine if a person were headed to court because they hadn’t paid their debts. But on the way there, they won the lottery. Should they pay off the debt, and avoid jail time? Of course! That would be the logical decision. We are all headed to judgement, too – the judgement of our lives before God. But what if we could quickly and easily pay off the debt of all our sins? We can – in the Sacrament of Confession. This is where the great wealth of Jesus’ Blood is applied to our debts, so that we can stand before the Father cleansed. Do not wait, for we are not guaranteed tomorrow – confess frequently, and pay off the debts with the Blood of Jesus, so that when we approach judgment, we can stand before the judge with our debts paid!

            Finally, we needn’t fear death if we are constantly drawing close to the Heart of God, trusting eternally in His mercy. What is Heaven but spending time with the God Who loves us? We make ourselves ready for Heaven by spending time with Him here. Because I know Him, I know what a good and merciful Father He is, which takes away all fear of death. God is not a cruel teacher who is waiting to fail us on the test – He is, rather, a good Father Who so desperately wants His children to be with Him that He sent His own Son to die in our place. With such a good Father, how can we not trust Him completely when He comes to call us home?

            My friends, Christians should always be ready to do three things: to pray, to share our faith, and to die. Are you ready to do all three?

Ordinary Time 32 - Consecration to Jesus through Mary

 

Ordinary Time 32

November 10, 2024

Empty Hands

 

            There is a famous legend of how the poinsettia plant became associated with Christmas. Poinsettias are native to Mexico, but according to the legend they used to be all green – no red or white flowers. One day a very poor girl was walking to church at Christmastime. She wanted to see the manger scene with Baby Jesus. She also wanted to bring some flowers to decorate His crib, but she was too poor to afford any, and in late December there aren’t too many wildflowers out. So this poor girl picked a handful of leaves from a large green weed and continued to church, hoping and praying that God would accept her meager offering. She laid them before the Christ Child and prayed that God would see her heart and not the weeds she was offering. She got up to go and at the door of the church, she gave one more glance at the manger scene, and was shocked to find that her green leaves had turned a brilliant and beautiful shade of red. Hence, the poinsettia has become the standard Christmas decoration worldwide.

            “Love is self-gift,” said Pope St. John Paul II. When we love someone we want to give to them – our time, a gift, an encouraging word, a smile, an act of service. So when we love God, we also want to give to Him – but what can we offer to so great a God? How could we ever come close to expressing our gratitude and love? Our lives are just a pittance, a tiny drop in the ocean of human history, just two small coins in the midst of an overflowing treasury.

            But genuine love wants to give more! St. Bernard once said, “It is true that the creature loves less because she is less. But if she loves with her whole being, nothing is lacking where everything is given.” So this should give us hope, that as we offer our lives to God, even if our lives and our prayers and our efforts are small, if we are giving Him our all, then this delights Him.

            But those who truly love God want to give more than our own meager efforts! We can do that in an easy way – by consecrating our lives to Jesus through Mary.

            After all, what pleases the Father the most? It is not us; it is Jesus Christ. Our Second Reading from Hebrews speaks about the offering that delights the Father – not the blood of calves and goats, which were offered under the Old Covenant, but the Blood of Jesus, offered once for all on our behalf. It’s as if someone wanted to make a million-dollar gift to a noble person, and they asked us to contribute. All we could contribute is a dollar, but the gift is given as if it was equally from both of us. Likewise, Jesus paid a gift that literally infinite – in His Precious Blood – but He invites us to offer a tiny amount, united to His, to make a beautiful gift to the Father. The Father will see our tiny self-gift as pleasing as Jesus’ infinite gift.

            We do this by consecrating our life and our actions to Jesus through Mary. It is good to begin every day, and every task throughout the day, by consecrating it to Jesus through Mary. Many people have done a 33-day or a 40-day consecration to Jesus through Mary by using one of the popular “consecration prayers” from St. Louis de Montfort, St. Maximilian Kolbe, or Fr. Michael Gaitley. And those are great, but it doesn’t have to be so elaborate. It could be simply a prayer like, “Lord Jesus, I give You this day. I give you every thought, word, and action. I give you all my joys and sorrows, my labors and my recreation. Let is all be pleasing to the Father, and let it be for Your glory. I offer all this through Mary our mother.” Or even easier: “For You, Jesus – through Mary.”

            Why through Mary? Mary is sometimes called the “Mediatrix (multiplier) of All Graces.” All graces from God pass through Her hands, because God loves to use small, humble servants to accomplish His plan. But conversely, all of our good works and prayers, when given to Mary, become amplified and purified before they are presented to the Father. It’s much like if we wanted to bring a flower to the Great King, but all we could find is a dandelion. Mary takes that dandelion and places it in a bouquet of lilies and roses and other fragrant and striking flowers, and then brings it to the King, in our name.

            True love wants to give. If we truly love God, we want to give Him more. We hunger for more time with Him in prayer, more sacrifices, more good works of charity. But in the end, all of our gifts to God are miniscule compared to the one Gift of Jesus Christ’s Blood, which has made all of us righteous. We can unite our small lives to His by consecrating ourselves and our ordinary lives to Jesus through Mary, which makes our small gift something so pleasing to the Father!

Ordinary Time 31 - Commanded to Love

 

Homily for November 3, 2024

Ordinary Time 31

A Command To Love God

 

            If you grew up in the ‘90s like me, you probably remember the movie “Richie Rich”, starring Macaulay Culkin. The movie was about an incredibly rich boy who had everything he could ever want – his own roller coasters, a McDonalds inside his house, everything – but he didn’t have friends. So his butler decides to use some money to “hire” friends for him. As it turns out, the kids enjoy hanging out with Richie so much that they end up refusing the money, and they become friends and have all sorts of adventures together.

            I think we can all admit that a friendship based on money isn’t a real friendship. For love to be real, it must be free. Do you remember when you were younger and you were at a family gathering, and your mom said, “Okay, now give Aunt Sally a hug” – and you did it reluctantly, perhaps rolling your eyes. Clearly this means far less than a hug freely chosen. So why, then, does God command us to love Him? How is that real love? Can someone command us to love them?

            God commands us to love Him because He knows that loving Him is what makes us happy. He gets nothing from our love – it’s not like He’s lonely or an egomaniac. Rather, He recognizes that loving Him is precisely what we were made for, and that our deepest happiness is to love Him.

            But how can someone command love? Doesn’t love rise spontaneously in our hearts? Not always – because love is fundamentally a choice, and not a feeling. We can take a natural, human love as an example. A married couple have committed themselves to love each other – but this does not mean that they always feel loving toward one another. Rather, it is a daily choice to lay down their lives for the other, even when they don’t feel like it. One could say that their vow commands them to love each other, because they freely entered into this love, so that when the feelings wear off, they choose to love.

            God’s love for us features this same dynamic. I doubt that He had any affections or delights in loving those men who were driving nails into His hands. No, He endured the Cross because His love was complete self-gift – His only thought is for us.

            So, it is our duty to choose love, even when we don’t feel it. What does that look like? Make choices for Him. Decide to pray, even if it feels dry. Follow His commands, even if we don’t understand them. As the saying goes, “Fake it ‘till you make it.” A wise philosopher, scientist, and devout Catholic named Blasé Pascal, offered what he called “Pascal’s Wager”. Part of this wager is the idea that if you don’t believe in God or love Him, all we had to do was act as if we believed and loved God – and He would grant us the grace to believe and love Him. This should give us hope – if we choose to do loving actions, love will soon become so ingrained in us that we will authentically love.

            I was recently reading about a reluctant musician from the Portland (Oregon) Orchestra. Turns out she was forced to take violin lessons from her mom, and she hated every minute of it. It seemed so dull to her – all that practicing and scales and screeching. When she was 10, her mom wanted to help her love the music, so Mom forced all her kids to start volunteering at the local orchestra. The young girl hated it even more! She’d rather be out playing with her friends. Finally, one day, the local orchestra was putting on a performance of a piece by a musician named Corelli, which the girl had tried to play in her private lessons and hated. But much to her surprise, when the first notes started to play, she realized, Oh! So this is what this piece is supposed to sound like! It’s beautiful! And she fell in love with music, having tasted the rich beauty of a beautiful piece of music. She is now a professional violinist in the Portland Orchestra.

            Our relationship with God can be much like that. We steep ourselves in the Word of God, we attend Mass, we make pilgrimages to holy sites, we read the Lives of the Saints, we hear beautiful Christian music, we go to Adoration and pray the Rosary, go on a retreat. At first we may do these things out of obligation, but it is likely that one or the other will stir our souls to a greater love for God!

            Which is why it’s not enough merely to attend Mass. Of course, the Mass is the highest form of prayer and worship, where we encounter Jesus in the Flesh…but the other parts of our Faith minister to our hearts, our minds, our desire for happiness, our craving to make our life meaningful. Diversify your prayer life and enrich your life of faith, and you will experience His love.

            Another important corollary is that parents might have to command their kids to love God and bring their kids to church, even if they object! Some parents say, “Oh, I’ll just let my kids choose what religion to practice, if they practice one at all.” But do we allow our kids to choose whether to go to the dentist or do their homework? Of course not. We force them to do things that they may not enjoy, because we know it is good for them – and because we are hoping to form the good habits that will continue into adulthood. Likewise, raising our children to know how to pray, to come to Mass weekly, and to live according to Christ’s teachings may not be appreciated by your surly teenager or your hyperactive toddler, but it is good for them and it inculcates faith deeply in them. It gives God a context to work in their lives.

            I think of the great example of St. Raphael Kalinowski, a Polish man in the mid-1800s. He was raised Catholic, reluctantly dragged to Mass by his parents. When he went off to university, he fell away from the Faith and didn’t give God a second thought. He became an Army engineer after college, during the time that Poland had begun a war against Russia. He happened to be captured by the Russians and sent to a salt mine in Siberia.

            This was a wake-up call for Raphael. Everything was stripped away – his career, his family, his health – what would he turn to for strength and purpose? He began to return to the faith of his youth. It had been so deeply ingrained within him, even though at the time he was reluctant, but now it came back full-force. He was able to survive ten years in Siberia due to his faith, and when he was released, he was a holy man of God who became a Carmelite priest and a saint.

            My friends, this command to love God with all that we are is so important that our Jewish brothers and sisters recite it every day. We too should inscribe it on our hearts, that we may think about it daily. Whether we feel loving or we don’t, we can still love God by choosing to love Him. In doing so, we will eventually begin to sense His presence, and someday come to possess the Object of our love, which is God Himself.

All Saints Day 2024 - Remember Who You Are

 

Homily for All Saints Day

November 1, 2024

Remember Who You Are

 

            Young Ben Hooper grew up in Tennessee, in the depths of the Bible Belt. His mother wasn’t married when Ben was born, and the deep South in the late 1800s was a tough place to grow up if you were a child out of wedlock. He recounts that his classmates shunned him, called him names, and he had to eat lunch by himself every day. Even the townspeople of Newport would whisper among themselves when Ben walked through town. He said he could feel their judgmental stares and gossipy comments, as he put it, “bore a hole through him” – everyone wondering who his real father was. In those days there was so much shame and social stigma to being fatherless.

            One day when he was 12, a new preacher came into his church. Ben made it a point to avoid him, ashamed of his background. He would come late and leave early from services so he wouldn’t have to greet the preacher. But one day the preacher happened to run into the boy in town.

            “Hey, boy!” the preacher called out. “I see you in church every Sunday – what’s your name? Who’s your father?”

            Oh here it comes, Ben thought. He felt the old black cloud come down upon him.

            But much to his surprise, the Preacher looked down at the boy for a moment, and a smile of recognition came upon his face. “Wait a minute,” he said. “I know who you are. I can see the family resemblance. You’re a son of God.” With that, the preacher put his arm on the boy’s shoulder and said, “And boy, you’ve got a great inheritance. Go and claim it.”

            Ben Hooper said that was the moment his life changed. He knew who he was, and he no longer had to live in shame. He went on to become a two-term governor of Tennessee.

            Our second reading gives us a consolation and a challenge. The consolation – we are God’s children now, and we shall grow evermore in this sonship. How could He be pleased to adopt me – after all I’ve done – as His son? How could He adopt you – with all your insecurities and wounds – as His child? And yet, out of the gratuity of His love, He has done just that. I don’t care who your earthly parents are, whether they’re saints or deadbeats, Rosary-praying church ladies or drug addicts. If you have been baptized and walk in the faith of Jesus Christ, you are a son of God.

            The challenge – “Everyone who has this hope based on him makes himself pure,

as he is pure.” A son or daughter of God does not wallow in sin. We’re made for more than that! I think of the great story of St. John Vianney, the patron saint of parish priests. When he first came to his town of Ars, he found that it had 250 people…and seven bars. That’s not a good ratio! He knew that, to obtain the conversion of his people, he needed to stop the drunkenness and the dirty dancing that went along with it. One day, as a very indecent dance was taking place in one of the taverns, and to stop it, he used a simple tactic. He simply walked over to the tavern, and stood in the middle of the dance floor, wearing his priestly garments. He said nothing, but merely stood there, gazing peacefully at the revelers. When they caught sight of the silent priest in their midst, all of a sudden they were struck by his noble bearing. He looked so dignified, peaceful – and they had been dancing impurely like crazed animals. They began to realize that their drunkenness, lust, and bawdy jokes were humiliating, beneath their dignity. One by one, they began to depart, until the tavern was empty – and within a couple of years every one of those bars was closed down and the people frequented the church instead!

            Jason Evert is a chastity speaker who hosts a podcast called “Lust is boring.” But we could say the same thing about any of the vices. Greed is boring. Envy is disgusting. Wrath and hatred are so beneath you. Sloth and laziness are so immature. Frankly, all sin is stupid and pointless – really, we would trade an eternal crown of glory for a few short moments of degrading pleasure? Let it not be so among you!

            A saint is one who realizes his dignity and lives out of it. As Pope St. Leo said, so powerfully, Christian, remember your dignity, and now that you share in God’s own nature, do not return by sin to your former base condition. Remember who you are, and Whose you are – and do nothing that is beneath your dignity.

            Someday we will see God face-to-face – keep your eyes pure. Weekly Our Lord rests upon our tongues – make sure that your words glorify Him. He has revealed His truth to our minds – let us take every thought captive and make it obedient to Him. We have been purchased at a tremendous price, the Blood of the Son of God – let us delight our good Father with our deeds.

            Saints knew who they were, and acted accordingly.

            My dear Christians, remember who you are: a people redeemed. Now let your life reflect that awesome dignity!

Feast of St. Jude - A New Name

 

Homily for St. Jude Novena

Monday, October 28, 2024

You Are Not Your Name

 

            It would be rough to have a famous last name – you’re always following in someone else’s footsteps. For example, did you know that the hockey great Wayne Gretzky’s son Trevor decided to play baseball instead of hockey? After he washed out of minor league baseball, he got into acting…and did pretty well, I guess, considering he starred in a movie with Bruce Willis. But I wonder if his dad was disappointed that he didn’t follow the hockey path…and I wonder if Trevor had different interests so that he wouldn’t have to live in his father’s shadow.

            Sometimes, though, the name has darker connotations. There are actually three nephews of Adolf Hitler who live in Long Island, but understandably they have changed their last name and refused all media interviews. Who would want to live with a name like that?

            Such is the case with our saint today. The reason why St. Jude is considered the patron of impossible cases is because his name is essentially the same name as the most infamous person in human history: Judas Iscariot, the man who betrayed Jesus Christ. It was said that you must be pretty desperate in your prayers, asking every single Apostle for their intercession, before you got to St. Jude, lest you come too close to praying to Judas!

            But St. Jude, with his faith, was not held down because of his name. No, he remained faithful to Christ, penned one of the letters of the New Testament, spent his life ministering in Persia, and ended up winning the martyr’s crown. He was not defined by his name or his association with an evil person – he knew that Jesus Christ had given him a better identity, a truer name.

            When reflecting on our own lives, are you proud of every name you’ve ever borne? Maybe you didn’t have a great family, and you live under the shadow of their dysfunctions and sins. Maybe you were called names as a kid, and these names became your identity. I was recently reading about a young man whose father called him “Seagull”, because, as his dad said, “All you’re good for is sitting around and squawking.” What a terrible identity – and a terrible wound. Do these things define us?

            One of the passages of Scripture that has always mystified me is from the Book of Revelation, where Jesus is speaking to those Christians who were struggling to remain faithful during persecution. He says, “To the one who is victorious, I will give some of the hidden manna. I will also give that person a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to the one who receives it.” How fascinating – that one of the gifts God will give to us is a new name, a new identity. If you are in Christ, He doesn’t see your messed-up family, your past, or your reputation. He calls you a new name – Beloved Child, Redeemed One, Conqueror.

            Claim that new name! Live out of that new identity! In Christ, St. Jude went from being one step away from Judas to a powerful Apostle, missionary, martyr, and intercessor. In Christ, you too can shake off the past and be transformed into a saint!

Ordinary Time 29 - The Gift of Human Life, Part 3 - The Life of the Soul

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 29

October 20, 2024

The Gift of Life, Part 3

 

            Many of us have visited Yale’s campus in New Haven. If you have, you’ve probably seen the statue of Nathan Hale, the first American spy. He’s often held up as a hero, but he was kind of a fool because his first spy mission didn’t go so well – due to his own fault. At the young age of 21, he volunteered himself to George Washington to spy on the British. He did so for a couple weeks, but one night he was out relaxing at a tavern in New York, a British soldier approached him and pretended to be a Patriot. Lubricated by more than a few beers, Hale told him everything and boasted about his spy mission. It didn’t take long for Hale to be arrested and found guilty of espionage. But he is perhaps best remembered for his immortal line right before his execution: “My only regret is that I have only one life to give for my country.”

            An inspiring thought! The entire point of this life is to give it away – Pope St. John Paul II said so powerfully, “Man can only find himself in a sincere gift of himself.” In other words, we only truly live when we find something to die for.

            This month of October is known as Respect Life month, when we consider the dignity and sacredness of all human life. I’d like to reflect upon the dignity of human life in light of our ultimate destiny – Heaven.

            In Greek, there are three words for “life”. There is bios, as in “biology”, meaning physical life – living, breathing, walking around. There is psuche, as in “psychology”, meaning the life of the mind – we are conscious, sentient beings. But then there is zoe, meaning fulfillment, joy, living out our purpose. There are an awful lot of people who are walking around, living, breathing, going to work or school – who have absolutely no idea why they were put on this earth. Earlier this year I started my Confirmation classes with the question, “What is the meaning of life?” I got some strange answers – “To live it…to have fun…” or just blank stares. As that famous line from the movie “The Sixth Sense” put it, “I see dead people walking around…and they don’t even know they’re dead.” I see a lot of people who are physically quite healthy – but are spiritually dead, and don’t even know it.

            The best medical practitioners recognize that we are a unity of body and soul, and that our physical life and health is good only insofar as it gives us strength to serve God. I think of the great St. Rene Goupil, a French doctor who traveled to America in the 1600s to serve as a missionary along with several other Jesuit priests. Rene was able to help the priests tremendously by offering his medical services to the native Mohawk peoples in upstate New York – once the natives experienced physical healing, they were more open to receiving the Gospel. However, not everyone was in favor of the missionaries’ presence, and the chief eventually forbade the Jesuits from teaching about Jesus Christ. One day, however, Rene was walking through the woods when a young Mohawk boy asked him to teach him about Jesus. So Rene taught the boy how to make the Sign of the Cross – and an older Mohawk brave saw it, reported it to the chief, who ordered Rene to be martyred. St. Rene Goupil realized that, as good as it was to take care of the physical health of the Mohawk people, they more urgently needed the spiritual health of Christ.

            We see this same dynamic in the Gospel. Bartimaeus receives a physical healing, but that is the least important miracle in the Gospel. More importantly, he receives the grace of faith and becomes one of Christ’s followers. One day his body went into the ground, but his soul still lives to this day – hopefully in Heaven, although the Church has never declared Bartimaeus a saint.

            So what are our takeaways? I’d like to mention three. First, we must always prioritize spiritual over physical health. Both are good, but more important is the soul which is eternal. So if it’s the end of the day and we have only twenty minutes left and we can either pray or work out, we ought to choose the prayer. If we have to choose between worshipping God at Mass and taking our kids to their sports, we need to prioritize Mass. It is good to pray for physical health for our family and friends – but it is better to pray for their conversion and sanctification. Our body is good, for it is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and we should care for it. But our soul is better, for it will last into eternity, while the body…as the saying goes, “No one makes it out alive.” So prioritize the soul over the body!

            Second, any health care or medical research must respect God’s law and the dignity of the human person. Unfortunately much of the medical research community is focused on “can we do it?” instead of “should we do it?” Science isn’t a free-for-all where we should do everything that is theoretically possible – the limits of the free inquiry of science should be the eternal Law of God and respect for His plans. Research that is done upon embryos or health care that violates our Catholic teachings must be avoided, and when we are involved in beginning-of-life or end-of-life issues, we should form our consciences well by studying what the Church has taught on those matters, so we know the Mind of Christ.

            Finally, the last takeaway is that life is not absolute, and there are reasons to sacrifice life and health – for Christ, and for others. I know of a priest who, during Covid, decided to continue providing Last Rites to patients dying of Covid – and because of this, the priest was on perpetual quarantine, never left his rectory except to anoint the dying, and caught the disease several times (thankfully, he survived and is fine now). I think of St. Damien of Molokai, the Belgian priest who spent his life ministering in a leper colony in Hawaii, eventually catching and dying of the disease. I think of Bl. Stanley Rother, a priest from Oklahoma who was ministering to the people of Guatemala during their civil war back in the late 1970s. He was threatened by the rebel insurgents so often that his bishop called him back to Oklahoma to save his skin, but he convinced the Bishop to let him return, saying, “How can a shepherd run away when the wolf is at the door?” He was eventually martyred for his faithfulness to his people. There have been many saints who preferred to suffer and die rather than commit sin. The entire point of life is not to preserve it indefinitely – it’s to give it away to Someone worth the sacrifice. I was very inspired when Msgr. Sabia was here in July for his 90^th birthday Mass and, at great personal cost, genuflected during the Consecration. Surely it was difficult and painful to genuflect, as his knees are not good (at 90, whose would be!). But he knows that Jesus Christ is worth the pain.

            My friends, in the midst of Respect Life Month, we remember that life is a sacred gift from God that should be cherished and protected, for ourselves, our families and neighbors, and the most vulnerable in society. But we also acknowledge that the divine life of grace in our soul is infinitely more valuable, and that our human life is given to us so that we can serve God faithfully here, and someday possess Him for eternity.

Ordinary Time 28 - The Gift of Human Life, Part 2 - Who Are the Vulnerable?

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 28

October 13, 2024

The Dignity of the Vulnerable

 

            A random fact about my life is that I was on Food Network for five seconds. Yes, it’s true. When I was a deacon, I was visiting a brother priest who asked me, “Can you assist me at Mass? By the way, a film crew will be here.” So we had Mass and a film crew from Food Network was there, because right after Mass, this priest – Fr. Leo Patalinghug – was going to be on “Throwdown with Bobby Flay”. Fr. Leo won the throwdown, by the way.

            But now Fr. Leo has a much more important ministry than just making good food – he’s making good lives. He runs a ministry called “Grace and Grub” which is a food truck…run by ex-convicts. While much of the world sees these men as wasted lives, Fr. Leo trains them in cooking and job skills, and gives them a chance to contribute to society. It’s a population that so often is seen as lacking human dignity – but Fr. Leo sees their dignity and loves them back into the men they were created to be.

            We continue our series on “human dignity” during this Respect Life month by looking at different facets of human dignity. For all of our technological progress and first-world comforts, the true mark of a civilized society is how it treats the most vulnerable – and we do not do a particularly good job on many fronts, in large part because we’ve lost the Christian understanding of the human person as made in the Image and Likeness of God, from conception until natural death.

            With this understanding of our inherent dignity, our Church teaches that we must have a Preferential Option for the Poor – in other words, in our laws and policies and even in our daily lives, our first thought and concern should be for the poor. But who are the poor? The poor are the unborn, the elderly and sick, immigrants, victims of war or abuse or racism, those who struggle with addictions, the disabled, and those who are materially poor. These particularly vulnerable populations deserve our concern, protection, and aid.

            In doing so, we recognize that dignity does not depend upon which side of the womb you’re on. Dignity doesn’t depend on the amount of money in one’s bank account. Dignity doesn’t depend upon one’s health or having only a short time remaining on earth. Dignity does not depend upon what language you speak or what country you come from. Dignity is not taken away based upon a person’s limitations, what they’ve done, or what they’ve been through.

            St. Vincent de Paul, who worked with the poor his entire life, admitted that to our eyes, human dignity could be hard to see. He once said, “The poor are our masters, but masters who are terribly insensitive and demanding, dirty and ugly, unjust and foul-mouthed. But the harder they are to serve, the more we have to love them.”

            After all, Christ was Himself “the poor”. He was an unborn baby in a crisis pregnancy. He was an immigrant when forced to move to Egypt. He lived in poverty and labored with His hands. He was so disfigured in His Passion that the Scriptures said that He hardly had the appearance of a man. He was injured and helpless upon the Cross. And so He said that those who feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, clothe the naked, or shelter the homeless are doing those acts of kindness to Him.

            Some of the saints took this quite seriously. St. Camillus, who was dedicated to taking care of the sick, once came up to a sick person and asked him to forgive his sins – he truly believed that this sick person was Christ! The Hungarian Queen, St. Elizabeth of Hungary, once found a poor man suffering from illness, and not having the ability to take him to a hospital, brought him to her own bed in home. When her husband objected to having a sick stranger in his own bed, he angrily tore off the covers and was shocked to find, instead of a sick man, a vision of Christ stretched out on the Cross upon the bedsheets. Clearly, to respect human dignity and to love our neighbor is to love Christ Himself!

            I hope it is safe to say that we all agree thus far that human dignity is non-negotiable. However, with an election looming and so many issues of human dignity at the forefront, how is this truth to impact our choices? It is important to make a distinction among certain issues.

            Human beings have many rights: life, food and shelter, love, home, a right to an education and employment, a right to freedom of religion and freedom from fear. But of all the rights that a person has, the right to life is the most fundamental and under no circumstances can we allow a person to take the life of an innocent person. Therefore, all persons of good will must be committed to protecting the lives of the unborn and the elderly as a primary value as we look to build a Culture of Life.

            By contrast, there are many issues of human dignity where people of good will can disagree about how best to pursue the good. For example, we all must welcome immigrants, but people of good will can disagree about the best way to do that while protecting our own country. We all must be concerned about poverty, but there can be a wide range of solutions for ending poverty. These are not unimportant issues, but there can be legitimate disagreements about how we can respect human dignity.

            So what are our “action steps” in response to the great dignity of every human being? First – we have a duty to work toward a just society which respects all human dignity. We work toward it through the political process, through making our voices heard in the halls of power, through peaceful and prayerful protests and activism which seek to build a “Culture of Life” and by praying for the conversion of our leaders. Second – we have a duty to respect human dignity in our own spheres of influence – by being there for the friend in a crisis pregnancy, taking care of and not abandoning our elderly relatives, welcoming immigrants in our midst, finding ways to alleviate the sufferings of the poor, and supporting charities which do such things. We aim to build a Culture of Life in our homes, our neighborhoods, our town, state, and country.

            In a truly Christian society, no one is unwanted. No one is disposable. As Pope St. John Paul II said, “The only right response to another human being is love.”

            Let’s build that truly Christian society.

Ordinary Time 27 - The Gift of Human Life

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 27

October 6, 2024

The Gift of Human Life

 

            In 1995, Pope St. John Paul II released a document which became one of the cornerstones of his pontificate: Evangelium Vitae, which means “The Gospel of Life.” This encyclical letter (which is a letter from the Pope to the entire world, carrying magisterial weight) coined that phrase which would be so repeated by the saintly pontiff for the remainder of his tenure: We are facing an enormous and dramatic clash between good and evil, death and life, the “culture of death” and the “culture of life.”. He held up these two contrasting ideas - culture of life and culture of death – as the great battle of our time. And here we are, almost thirty years later, with the battle still raging around us. As our Church enters into October, which is designated as Respect Life month, and as our nation is roiled by continual disagreements about the gift and meaning of human life, today I begin a month-long homily series discussing the Culture of Life and how it is lived out joyfully, with love.

            But first, let us examine what makes human life unique – in a world that is sometimes lost to it! Haven’t we all seen the old Fancy Feast commercial where the cat is being given the choicest, most delectable tidbits to eat out of the crystal goblet – while at the same time there are starving people in Bridgeport? Human life is infinitely more valuable than a pet’s. Why? Let us look at five aspects of human life that makes it unique, valuable, and worthy of respect.

            First, human life is sacred. We are made in the Image and Likeness of God, with an intellect and freedom. The Church has always been on the forefront of human dignity – whether it was the Dominican priest Fr. Bartolome de las Casas objecting to the harsh mistreatment of Native Americans among the Conquistadores, the religious orders like the Camillians who founded the modern hospital system, the great works of charity of St. Vincent de Paul and Mother Teresa, or the bold stand against the Nazi juggernaut by Bl. Franz Jagerstatter. The Church, since it is made of individuals, is not perfect in its history of respecting human rights – but it was truly due to the influence of Christianity that the world shifted from being “nasty, brutish, and short” to being one that sees the sacredness of every human life.

            This was one of the main reasons why Christianity spread so rapidly in the Roman Empire – it was the first religion to actually respect human dignity for everyone, from the poorest to the rich. An anonymous early Church document called “The Letter to Diognetus”, from approximately 130AD, talks about this stark, countercultural juxtaposition of the Roman culture of power, domination and violence with the unique compassion and respect that Christians showed: Like others, they marry and have children, but they do not expose them. (Exposing children was the ancient tradition of taking a handicapped child and leaving them in a field or forest to die). (Christians) share their meals, but not their wives. They live in the flesh, but they are not governed by the desires of the flesh. They pass their days upon earth, but they are citizens of heaven. Obedient to the laws, they yet live on a level that transcends the law. Christians love all men, but all men persecute them. They suffer dishonor, but that is their glory. They are defamed, but vindicated. A blessing is their answer to abuse, kindness their response to insult. It was this radical commitment to the sacredness of all human life that caused the Church to be looked at in wonder – and for Christ’s message to spread

            Second, human life is a right. Our Declaration of Independence was correct when it stated that “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.” This right to life comes from God and cannot be taken away by any government or individual.

            Third, human lives are equal. If you were in a psychology class in college, you may have had to do the classic “Lifeboat” thought experiment. We were taught something along the lines of, “There are ten people on a sinking ship, and the lifeboat only has five spots. Who do you let on? You have a college professor, a person with cancer, an elderly person, a child, a famous athlete, your mother, someone with Downs’ Syndrome…” and the list goes on. The whole idea of the exercise is to somehow judge which lives are worth saving and which lives are not worth anything. With the eyes of a Christian, though, every life has the same equal value since all are loved infinitely by God and are invited to the same eternal destiny. There is no human life that has greater or lesser value than any other, based on talent or looks or money or size. From the first moment of conception until natural death, every human life has equal value.

            Fourth, human life is a gift. The Lord gives, and the Lord takes away. He does not owe us another day of life or another breath – but all is gift. It is a gift that we must treat well, lest we offend the Giver – hence, our obligation to take care of our health and the health of others.

            Because it’s a gift, it is not something we are owed. This is especially true for couples who are struggling to have a child, which is a tremendous cross for many families. Recently IVF has made the news, and I know it is very prevalent in this community. But IVF is always gravely immoral, since it makes a child, not a gift, but a commodity to be manufactured. A child has a right to be brought into existence through an act of love, not a scientific technique. In this way, we preserve the nature of the gift – the giver is God, and we receive the gift of human life with gratitude and openness.

            Finally, life, as good as it is, is not absolute and there are many reasons to give it up. Greater love has no man, says that Lord, than to lay down his life for his friend. The fifty million martyrs who shed their blood for Christ demonstrated this profoundly – there are reasons to give up our health, our energy, our very lives.

            As Pope John Paul II said, “The basis for every good thing in society is the dignity of the human person.” Life is always a good, as it participates in the very life of God. This earthly life is a hint and a foreshadowing of that life that never ends, which we all yearn for. As St. Irenaeus put it, “The glory of God is man fully alive” – and this is His destiny for us, not just an earthly existence, but a Heavenly one where this earthly life will reach its fulfillment.

Ordinary Time 26 - The Beauty of Innocence

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 26

September 29, 2024

Innocence Regained

 

            One of the great scientists and geneticists of the last century, Dr. Har Khorana, was a renowned atheist. Having earned multiple doctorates and receiving the National Medal of Science, he came up with a number of arguments for why God does not exist, and was able to convince many of his colleagues that God was impossible. He was so certain of his atheism that he made up a sign to hang over his office door that read, “God is Nowhere.”

            One day, he picked up his young son from school and brought him to work. As they were walking towards his office, he asked his son what he learned in school, and the boy said, “I learned how to read sentences.” Delighted, the father stopped them at the door and pointed to his “God is Nowhere” sign and said, “All right, son, can you read that sign above my door?”

            The boy slowly read, “God…is…now…here.”

            Dr. Khorana began to feel his atheism crumble at his young son’s innocence – and he eventually came back to God.

            Innocence is often scorned in our culture, but it is a prerequisite for Heaven, as Our Lord tells us that only the “pure of heart shall see God.” Innocence is not naivete – being naïve is not knowing what the world offers, while innocence means that we know what the world offers but have chosen to reject the evil and choose the good. Innocence is a beautiful virtue that Christ extols in today’s Gospel, as He speaks about the necessity to protect the innocence of children and even to protect our own innocence by choosing to die rather than to sin.

            Let’s go back to the Garden of Eden, to that tragic beginning of the human race. God created the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil, and instructed us not to eat from it. Why is knowledge of good and evil such a bad thing? Because the Hebrew word we translate “knowledge” really means “experience” – it was the first time that Adam and Eve had tasted evil, experienced it from the inside out.

            There are many things that we don’t know unless we experience. It’s hard to describe something like eating wasabi or riding a roller coaster to someone who has never experienced it. But evil is something that we should know about – but not experience. For example, I can know that drugs are bad even without having tried them myself. And this was originally the case of Adam and Eve – they knew what evil was, and they knew to avoid it, but they had never experienced it – and their curiosity led to the downfall of the human race.

            Our Lord, then, is urging us to guard our innocence, and guard the innocence of those around us, particularly the young. I just want to mention a couple ways we can do that.

            First, to guard our own innocence, I recommend a couple things. First, curb our curiosity. Do we find ourselves constantly clicking on scandal-mongering clickbait, hungry for the latest dirt? Do we try to listen in on the office gossip, Google unhealthy things, or take delight in finding out about evil? Curiosity is good but must be tempered by the question, “Should I know this? Is this knowledge going to make me a better disciple of Christ?” Remember that curiosity killed the cat, and it can kill our soul too if we’re not careful with it!

            Second, the world is full of innocent good things – pursue them! I remember when Tim Tebow, the famous football quarterback, was at the height of his fame, a reporter was invited over his parents’ house for a family gathering to do an article on the quarterback. After the reporter did the interview and had lunch with the family (Tim was the youngest of five boys, and all of them were there), Tim turns to the reporter and says, “So, do you want to play hide-and-seek?” And the whole family – all young men in their ‘20s, plus a secular news reporter, start playing this kids’ game at their house. How awesome! There are so many great things to do that are innocent and pure – pursue these!

            Jesus also makes clear to His disciples that we are our brothers’ keeper, and must seek to guard their innocence as well, particularly if we have kids. How do we do that?

            First, help your kids get to know Jesus. Jesus and His Word is the filter through which we can understand and evaluate the world around us to understand what is good and healthy, and what will corrupt our souls.

            Second, we must be vigilant about who or what influences our young people. St. John Bosco said: Fly from bad companions as from the bite of a poisonous snake. If you keep good companions, I can assure you that you will one day rejoice with the blessed in Heaven; whereas if you keep with those who are bad, you will become bad yourself, and you will be in danger of losing your soul. We become our friends – good friends will make us holier!

            We also become the media we consume. Dear parents, I beg you – please do not allow your child unfiltered access to the internet! Not only does it risk their soul, it harms their ability to reason and is correlative to a whole host of mental illnesses. Give them a phone without internet access, put a filter on their computer, and monitor what music they listen to. This goes not just for kids – we need to do this for ourselves, too.

            In the news these days we see battles going on in certain states regarding banning books and other media from libraries and from children’s access. But it is not censorship to recognize that not every piece of knowledge needs to be known to all people at all times. Just like we don’t teach second-graders algebra, because their minds aren’t ready to receive it without confusion, so we don’t allow young people to encounter evil in books or movies when their souls aren’t formed to identify the evil in it. St. John Bosco put it best: Never read books that aren’t moral, even if these bad books are very well written from a literary point of view. Would you drink something you knew was poisoned just because it was offered to you in a golden cup?

            Finally, teach your kids critical thinking and communicate with them. Conversations at home ought to help form a worldview for your kids – a Christian worldview, with Christ at the center and everything else evaluated in light of Him. A Christian worldview, where we recognize that we have souls with an eternal, supernatural destiny, where we know that we are born into an epic mission of expanding the Kingdom of God to rule over our lives and the lives of our family and friends…this worldview helps us to judge everything we see in the light of eternity to see their true value or lack thereof, which help us live in innocence by choosing the good despite the myriad of evil options around us.

            As we begin to live from a greater purity, sin will lose its attraction to us. I am reminded of the story of St. Joseph of Cupertino, a simple Franciscan priest in Italy in the 1700s. He was so pure and humble that he didn’t know he was living a saintly life. One day, all of the Franciscans are in church, when Fr. Joseph seemed restless and agitated. He couldn’t sit still and looked sick. The abbot came over to him and asked, “Are you all right?” He replied, “Don’t you smell it? There is a horrendous smell in this church.” The abbot didn’t notice anything at all, but, concerned that perhaps it was mold or something decaying, he said, “Can you show me where it’s coming from?”

            Fr. Joseph got up and began to walk out of the church, and the abbot followed. They went down the street and came to a certain house, where Fr. Joseph began to gag and choke, the odor was so bad. He told the abbot that they needed to go into the house. They entered without knocking, and went up to the second floor, where they found a group of people seated around a table, reading spells and practicing witchcraft. Joseph took his walking stick and began thrashing it around, destroying their spellbooks and other accoutrements they were using for evil purposes. He could literally smell their sin because of the purity of his soul!

            There is nothing so beautiful as a soul unsullied by sin; innocent, pure, undefiled. We admire Mary’s pure and immaculate Heart, set apart for loving Jesus entirely. We shouldn’t just admire Mary’s innocence, but imitate that innocence – by helping ourselves, our kids, and our families to reject evil and choose the good!

Ordinary Time 25 - The Art of Knowing Love

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 25

September 22, 2024

Gratitude and the Art of Knowing Love

 

            One time a college professor was teaching a lesson on the seven deadly sins. He instructed his pupils, “Before we begin discussing envy, I’d like you to write down every person you are envious of, but don’t write them on paper – I want you to write each name on a potato and bring it to class.” The students thought this was creative and was excited to see what he would do with them. Some students had two or three potatoes, while others brought in a whole sack. They were hoping to air their grievances with all of those people: this one boasts all the time about their athletic awards; this one posts arrogant photos on Instagram showing off their bodies; this one didn’t earn their wealth and doesn’t deserve it.

            But to their surprise, the teacher didn’t address the issue, but only told them to bring the potatoes back the next day. They did so, and he told them to bring them back the next day. Day after day they were to bring back the potatoes. After two weeks, the potatoes had begun to get heavy, burdensome, smelly, and rotten. Finally, two weeks after assigning it, the teacher said, “This is what happens when you carry envy in your heart. It makes your heart heavy, weighed down, and it begins to rot. Now get rid of all your potatoes – and get rid of all your envy.”

            All three of our readings deal with envy and its consequences. The first reading describes the envious machinations of the Pharisees, who see Jesus as a threat because of His holiness. The Gospels portray the Apostles as envious of one another, angling to become the greatest among them. And St. James speaks about the consequences of envy: war, dissension, division. Let’s look at that particular sin and how to combat it.

            First, we need to define it. Aquinas defines envy as “sorrow at another’s good fortune.” This distinguishes envy from jealousy, which is not wanting to share something that you already have. So in this way, jealousy can be good – a husband should be jealous of his wife in the sense that he does not want another man to have her! But can envy – sorrow at another’s good fortune – ever be good?

            Yes! St. Thomas Aquinas mentions two ways that envy is good, and two ways it is sinful. Envy can be helpful when we see an evil person receive a good thing that they will use wrongly. So if a corrupt politician becomes elected, it is right to be sorrowful – knowing that their political position might be used to harm others. Or if a pleasure-loving, faithless person wins the lottery, and we know they will only spend the money on sinful things – it is right to be sorrowful over this. Envy can also be helpful when it spurs us on to become better. I see someone who has been exercising and looks great – and I want to do the same. We see someone who is living a virtuous life and radiates joy – and we want to pursue the same.

            But envy is sinful, according to Aquinas, when we don’t think the person is worthy of their blessings – that is always wrong, for God gives His blessings to both the righteous and sinners. And how many times have we received blessings from God when we were unworthy of them! The other cause of sinful envy, according to Aquinas, is when we are angry that another person has simply received more blessings than we have.

            This can even be a temptation in the spiritual life. St. Therese of Lisieux struggled with this. She had a burning desire to become a martyr, but living in nineteenth-century France, there was no chance. She had the desire to become a missionary, but poor health meant that she never left her hometown. Initially she wrestled with God – why can’t I do something great for you? Why can’t I become like those magnificent saints who lived tremendously heroic lives? But she came to peace about it when she considered the variety of flowers in the garden: some are flashy and eye-catching, while others are decked in more subtle hues. As she writes in her autobiography:

            Our Lord has deigned to explain this mystery to me. He showed me the book of nature, and I understood that every flower created by Him is beautiful, that the brilliance of the rose and the whiteness of the lily do not lessen the perfume of the violet or the sweet simplicity of the daisy. I understood that if all the lowly flowers wished to be roses, nature would lose its springtime beauty. And so it is in the world of souls, Our Lord’s living garden. He has been pleased to create great Saints who may be compared to the lily and the rose, but He has also created lesser ones, who must be content to be daisies or simple violets flowering at His Feet, and whose mission it is to gladden His Divine Eyes when He deigns to look down on them. And the more gladly they do His Will the greater their perfection.

            So what is the antidote to envy, that sorrow at other’s blessings? There are three, one clearly evident and the other two hidden. The evident one, of course, is gratitude. So often we forget all of our own blessings – we have been given more than we deserve – family and friends, life, good health, our Catholic Faith. As Catholic speaker Chris Stefanick puts it, “None of us has to exist, but we get to. It’s just awesome to be alive – everything else is a bonus!” Counting our gratefuls helps stave off envy.

            But there are two deeper ways to fight off envy. I believe that one reason we are envious of others is that we think that someone else’s blessings means that they are loved more. We falsely believe that a person’s bigger paycheck and more expensive vacations, better health and more friends, means that we are somehow loved less by God or by others.

            This may be why Jesus chooses to hold a young child up as an example – most children are secure in their parents’ love. They know that they are unconditionally loved, safe in their parents’ embrace. And all Christians ought to know so deeply that they are equally unconditionally loved by their Heavenly Father. If we have the treasure of Christ and know the depths of His love, what else do we really need?

            Of course, that’s easier said than done. To be secure in your Father’s love isn’t a feeling, but an unshakeable confidence that we are loved, not because of what we can do or produce, how we look or how successful we are, but because we are His. Take a risk, believe in His love, and rest secure that no matter what others have, we are still infinitely, personally, passionately loved by God.

            Finally, we can overcome envy with the realization that God has a unique, unrepeatable plan in our lives – and this plan is good and perfect, directed to our holiness. So if we don’t have wealth, if we aren’t successful, if we don’t have good health – we can surrender this all to our Heavenly Father in trust that He is leading us along a path of holiness. Rather than look to other people’s lives and wish we were like them, we look to our own unique path and see the virtues and gifts God wants to form in us.

            How many of the saints became holy through unique, difficult paths! One of my favorites is St. Benedict Joseph Labre. Born in France in the 1700s, he thought about becoming a priest, but was rejected from three separate monasteries. He was too poor; he wasn’t able to get letters of recommendation from influential people; he had bad health. It would have been easy for him to grow angry and say, “Why me?” or to look to others’ blessings. But instead, he said, “Lord, I don’t know where you’re leading me…but I trust in you.”

            One day in prayer he received an inspiration – to go, on foot, to all of the holy pilgrimage sites throughout the world – forever. He would live his life as a perpetual pilgrim, subsisting by begging for bread, and praying for the world. So he began a most unique mission! He traveled thousands of miles, sharing what little bread he begged with the homeless, sleeping out under the stars, and living a life of hardship and poverty. Every town he would enter, he would spend long hours in front of the Eucharist, before seeking out the company of the homeless to teach them about the Lord.

            God used this humble pilgrim in profound ways – he was known to multiply bread for the homeless and heal the sick, and God even gave him the grace of levitation (which means actually floating while praying – a few saints have had this remarkable gift!).

            At the end of his life he made Rome his permanent home, continuing to beg and minister to the homeless as a homeless man himself. St. Benedict Joseph Labre had a very unique call to holiness – and rather than blame God or grow envious of others for his lack of natural gifts, allowed God to use his poverty to make him a saint!

            My friends, envy is one of the deadly sins – it kills charity in the heart, and rots away our peace and joy. But with the antidotes of gratitude, accepting the love of God, and rejoicing in the path that God has planned for us, we can overcome envy to live a life of joy!

Ordinary Time 24 - Things That Go Together

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 24

September 15, 2024

Faith and Works

 

            There are some things in life that always seem to go together. Peanut butter and jelly. Salt and pepper. Romeo and Juliet. The New York Giants and losing. Some things were just meant to be together.

            But since the mid-1500s, there has been considerable debate about two more things that should be together: faith and works. How are we saved? By our faith in Jesus Christ, or by our good deeds and following the Commandments? The answer is: yes. But the history is a lot more complicated.

            On one side, there is a teaching that many of the early Protestants believed: sola fide, which means being saved by faith alone. Martin Luther, who founded Protestantism, once wrote to a spiritual friend: “God does not save those who are only imaginary sinners. Be a sinner, sin boldly, but let your trust in Christ be stronger, and rejoice in Christ who is the victor over sin, death, and the world. We will commit sins while we are here, for this life is not a place where justice resides. No sin can separate us from Him, even if we were to kill or commit adultery thousands of times each day.” Now, I don’t think Luther was actually telling people to go and sin and not worry about it, but his belief was that all we needed for Heaven was to believe in what Jesus did – regardless of what we do or don’t do.

            But there is an equally dangerous extreme on the other side. The early Church wrestled with a heresy called Pelagianism. Pelagius denied original sin and said that we could freely choose to be perfect, even without God’s grace. If we just tried hard enough, we could live good lives, and we didn’t need Jesus to save us. Jesus was an example of a sinless life, said Pelagius, but we can become holy just by imitating Him, even without His grace. I see this error a lot at funerals where people say, “Oh, I know Uncle Billy didn’t really believe or go to Mass or pray, but he was very nice so we know he’s in Heaven.” That’s Pelagianism, and it ain’t good!

            Both of these are opposite errors. The truth, as Aquinas says, is in the middle of extremes. And James puts it best when he defines what saves us: living faith. We are actually saved by our faith in Jesus Christ, in His death and resurrection, not in anything we’ve done. But that faith remains dead until it is vivified by good works.

            Consider the example of the first person to enter Heaven, after Jesus. Do you know who it was? It wasn’t Mary, or the Apostles, or some super-holy person. It was the Good Thief who was crucified alongside Jesus. He turned to Christ and said, “Remember me when You come into Your kingdom.” To which Jesus responded, “This day you will be with Me in paradise.” He had no good works or deeds to bring to Jesus – he was a thief, a public sinner. But by his faith, he was saved.

            But – what if he was brought down alive and allowed to continue his life…do you think he could say, “Well, now that I’ve acknowledged Jesus as Lord, I can go out and still be a thief.” Would that be saving faith? Of course not! Saving faith means that we acknowledge Jesus as Lord, and then we live like Jesus is Lord.

            We see this same dynamic in the Gospel. St. Peter has rock-solid faith – he is the first person to recognize Jesus as the Son of God, the Savior of the world. What faith! But then when Jesus reveals to him the reality that the Christian life involves the Cross, and the living-out of that faith becomes a stumbling block.

            A lot of Christians have that same challenge – it’s easy enough to believe in Jesus in our heads, but when it comes to actually living it out, it’s another matter. I am reminded of a Peanuts cartoon where Linus says, “I love mankind! It’s people I can’t stand.” It’s a nice notion to think that Jesus should be the center of our life – it’s a little tougher when we’ve got to tell our kids’ sports coach that we have to miss the game to get to Mass. It’s good theology to believe that everyone is made in the image and likeness of God…but it gets a little tough to put that theology into practice when we have to sit next to our brother-in-law at the family gathering…you know, the weird one who is boring and has no social graces and who always argues about politics. Faith plus works equals the cross – but do not be afraid, for it is through the Cross that we draw close to Jesus and become like Him.

            I close with another beautiful saint who combined great faith and piety with an active love for the needy – St. Louise de Marillac. She was born and raised among the French aristocracy in the 1600s, but cultivated a deep relationship with the Lord. As a young adult, she felt called to be a cloistered nun (that is, a nun who spends her entire life in prayer, never leaving her monastery but interceding for the world). But she was rejected by all the religious communities she applied to.

            Confused and lost, her family suggested that she try marriage. She married a good and devout aristocrat, and they had one son. It was a happy few years, but she was still restless – she wanted to put her faith into action but couldn’t find out how to do it. Tragically, her husband died of an illness, and as a widow with a son to raise she was cast into poverty.

            Around that same time, a priest named St. Vincent de Paul had been launching an initiative called the Ladies of Charity, which recruited aristocratic ladies to work with the poor. Unfortunately, the initiative was a failure – the rich women would wear their fancy dresses into the slums and be afraid of getting their hands dirty, while the poor they were serving were insulted by the condescending attitude of the rich. Fr. Vincent knew he needed a new tactic, where ordinary women, not the 1%, would actually serve the poor. He quickly found a friend in Louise, who had the same vision of spending her life to relieve the distress of the destitute.

            Together, they organized a group of young women who wanted to dedicate their lives to the service of the poor and orphans. Starting with only four women, they soon grew and attracted more young ladies who wanted to give themselves over to service, for love of Jesus and souls. By the end of her life, she had opened over 40 homes where the poor, orphans, widows, and the sick could find food, shelter, and love. The women she gathered to care for them became the Daughters of Charity, a religious community that still exists to this day. She combined her deep piety with a fervor to serve – the best of both worlds!

             Like Jack and Jill, popcorn and a movie, thunder and lightning – so faith and works go together. We are saved by our living faith in Jesus Christ – a vibrant relationship with Him that is lived out in our thoughts, words, and deeds.

Ordinary Time 23 - A Better Family

 

Homily for Ordinary Time 23

September 8, 2024

Welcome Home

 

            We have a young lady who comes to our youth group here who has a rather inspiring backstory. She was born in Waterbury to a broken home, and bounced around through foster homes for many years until she was finally adopted by a good Catholic family at ten years old. Four years later, she’s now a fervent, faithful follower of Jesus. Over the summer, I asked her how she came to really love the faith, when she grew up in such rough homes and was more-or-less forced to be baptized at ten. She told me, “I don’t know how I came to love Jesus, but when I was baptized, I felt like I was finally coming home.”

            What a beautiful description of a life with Christ – finally coming home. Did you catch the immense power of today’s Collect (Opening Prayer)? Here it is again: O God, by whom we are redeemed and receive adoption, look graciously upon your beloved sons and daughters, that those who believe in Christ may receive true freedom and an everlasting inheritance. Let’s unpack that for a minute.

            We are creatures – no better than servants, really. We don’t have the power to draw another breath if it’s not given to us from above. And worse than that – we were disobedient slaves, we had spat in His face, disobeyed His commands. But even though He knows our nothingness and our arrogant rebellion, He still decided to offer us something phenomenal: we have the chance to become, not servants and dust, but sons and daughters.

            To do that, He had to first pay back the consequences of our rebellion – which He paid on the Cross. Once cleansed, through baptism He raises us to a dignity we never deserved – to be His sons and daughters, to share in His very life, to open His home to us and to allow us to call Him Father.

            This is the radical uniqueness of Christianity! Our Muslim brothers and sisters call God “Allah” – Master – but we call God “Abba”, Father, which would be blasphemous to Muslims. Our Jewish brethren would never consider themselves children of God – they are His people, perhaps, but not His family – and the blessings of God were only for them, not for the world.

            It would be outrageous in the first century, then, to invite the entire world into this sonship. There was an important detail in the Gospel – where did Jesus do this miracle? In the land of Tyre and Sidon, which is about 22 miles north of the border of the Holy Land – pagan territory. Of course they were overjoyed – not only did Jesus do a remarkable miracle, but He did it for Gentiles – the blessings of sonship are now being extended to the ends of the earth!

            So what’s our takeaway? Three elements. First – do you ever feel like you don’t fit in? This message of adoptive sonship in Christ means that we now have a family, no matter what. The Catholic Church is sometimes called “Holy Mother Church” and if you ever look at the colonnade surrounding St. Peter’s Basilica, they were designed to resemble arms reaching out to embrace the world. So maybe we were always “on the outside” as a kid…maybe as a young adult we felt like we couldn’t find our friend-group…maybe as an adult we feel alone. In Christ, though, we are surrounded by a “great crowd of witnesses,” as St. Paul puts it in the Book of Hebrews. Our best friends can be Jesus and the saints – and what a friendship that can be!

            I went to seminary with a remarkable man named Fr. Chase Hilgenbrinck. Before seminary, he was a professional soccer player, playing on the New England Revolution. He was so good that he was invited to try out for the Chilean national team, and he made the team and moved to Chile to play. The only problem was that he didn’t speak Spanish, and his teammates didn’t speak English. So after practice, his teammates would all go out and party…and Chase would be completely left out. In his loneliness, he began to go to the local Catholic Church and just sit in the presence of Jesus – it was the only place he could feel at home in a foreign country. Through those long afternoons of silence, he began to discern God calling him to the priesthood – and now he serves as a priest in Illinois. But it was through the experience of loneliness that God revealed to him that he belonged to Christ in the Catholic Church.

            Second, there’s an awful lot of people who struggle with their family. No one has perfect parents; we’ve all got family issues. But it’s good to know that we have a better family, a better Father. Even if you have great parents, they can only take us so far. At a certain point, we all have to turn to God as our Father. I remember being faced with some difficulty in my life and thinking, “Man, I wish my dad had prepared me for this!” To which, God responded, “He couldn’t prepare you for everything – now turn to Me, and I will lead you.” Whether we have great parents or are dealing with wounds because of them, God wants to father us – and He does so through the joys and challenges of everyday life. We receive His Fathering by reading His Word (the Bible), spending time with Him in prayer, and having that spirit of docility which asks Him, “Father, how are You leading me through this joy or sorrow? What are You teaching me? How are You forming me through this?”

            Finally, being a child of God means living out of such a dignity. Imagine being the son of Michael Jordan or Martin Luther King Jr. – there is a certain expectation that you “live up to the family name,” that you succeed in life because of who you’re related to. In the same way, as Pope St. Leo put it, “Christian, remember your dignity, and now that you share in God’s own nature, do not return by sin to your former base condition.” If we are adopted into God’s family, we must make the family proud and glorify our Heavenly Father! No more living as if we’re the star of our own melodrama; we’re sons of a Father who we want to make proud.

            I close with a beautiful saint who found her family in Christ. In South Sudan in the late 1800s, a young girl was the daughter of the tribal chief. She grew up happy, but when she was only eight years old, Muslim slave traders raided her village, forced her to march 600 miles, and sold her into slavery. She was so traumatized by the experience of losing her entire family that she actually forgot her name, so the Muslims called her “Bakhita”, which means “fortunate or lucky” in Arabic. She was traded from one master to another, until she was finally sold to a wealthy businessman from Italy, who took her back home. For many years she served this wealthy Italian man until one time he had to go on a lengthy business trip to the Middle East. Rather than take Bakhita with him, he decided to entrust her to a local convent of nuns, to make sure she didn’t run away.

            Living with the nuns was such a blessing for Bakhita. For the first time since her capture, she felt like she was surrounded by love. The nuns treated her with dignity and respect, not like a slave, and taught her about the Lord Jesus. She received baptism, taking the name Josephine, and rejoiced at her newfound family in Christ.

            The businessman returned, and demanded that Bakhita be returned to him. But there was a law in Italy that forbade anyone from keeping a baptized person as a slave. The man appealed to a judge, but the judge ruled that due to Bakhita’s baptism, she was now free. When asked what she wished to do with her newfound freedom, she replied that she wanted to become a nun and join the convent, as it was the best family she had ever found. She became a nun and was well-known for her joy, her kindness, and her merciful nature. Later on in life she was asked, “What would you do if you met those men who sold you into slavery?” She replied, “I would kiss their hands, for if that had not happened, I would not have known Jesus Christ.” What beautiful forgiveness and mercy – all because she found a family in the Church and in the Lord, a family of grace even richer than her family of blood.

            We’ve probably all heard the term that “blood is thicker than water” – the idea that loyalty to our family is the highest value. But in Christ, we are adopted into a family more secure and more loving than even our biological brothers and sisters. Now we are sons and daughters of a Heavenly Father, with an eternal inheritance awaiting us. And as St. Aloysius Gonzaga once said, “It is better to be a child of God than king of the whole world.”