September 2020 Youth Group Events

 

Youth Group Activities in September! Before youth group "officially" starts, please join us for three pre-youth-group activities this September! Two are for families, and one is for older kids only!

Saturday, September 5 - Youth Group Family Hike - Please join us for a day in nature! All families are invited to join us as we go to Topstone Park in Redding. Meet at 9am at the Park & Ride on High Ridge Road by the Merritt Parkway to carpool (or meet us at 10am at Topstone Park in Redding if that's more convenient. All families are welcome! No drop-offs, please - a parent must attend! Please RSVP if you're coming.

Saturday, September 19 - Saint Movie Night (For Grades 8-12) - All young people in grades 8-12 are invited to join us as we watch "For Greater Glory" about the Mexican Martyrs. Pizza will be served! It'll be at Holy Spirit Church from 6-9pm on September 19. We will eat outside (weather permitting), and masks will be required when we go in for the movie. Please RSVP so we have enough food, and bring a snack to share.

Friday, September 25 - Family Backyard Adoration - Our final Family Backyard Adoration will take place at the Sturhahn's house (74 Valley View Drive, Stamford) from 7-9pm. Come and join us; bring lawn chairs and food to share!
God bless you!
~fr joseph

Homily for Ordinary Time 22 - August 30, 2020

 

Homily for August 30, 2020

Twenty-Second Sunday of Ordinary Time

Living Sacrifice

 

            A British World War II fighter pilot named Vivian Rosewarne, having successfully flown many missions, was still always amazed at the grandeur of the earth and sky as he would maneuver his plane – and also conscious that he could die at any moment on these dangerous missions. He was tragically shot down at the young age of 23, but as his commanders were going through his possessions, they came upon a letter that he wrote to his mother but never sent. One line from this letter has always stood out to me. This fighter pilot writes: “The universe is so vast and so ageless that the life of one man can only be justified by the measure of his sacrifice.”

            This echoes the powerful words of Pope John Paul II: “Man can only find himself in a sincere gift of himself.”

            Do you ever feel like your life is routine, mundane, boring? Do you feel like you’re just going through the motions? Getting up, going to work or school, watching TV…kind of an empty existence? What is the point of it all – to get another paycheck, get another “A” on a test, and then do it all over again the next day? Doesn’t it just seem hollow?

            When the first Lord of the Rings movie came out in theaters, my sister and I went to see it together. After the movie, we were driving home in silence, still drinking it all in. Looking off into the setting sun, my sister sighed and said, “I wish life could be like that! An epic quest, a thrilling battle, an adventure to live!” It is written deep in the human heart: a desire for our lives to have meaning in a story bigger than us and our mundane existence.

            And we can! We are part of an epic story – God is bringing about the healing and restoration of the human race, and we have an irreplaceable role to play in that mission! We are living in a battlefield between good and evil, between God and Satan - and souls are being lost and won because of our words and deeds!

So if we are living in something more than just a mundane, humdrum, ordinary world, then the measure of our lives and our existence is in what we are willing to sacrifice for. St. Paul tells us to “make of our bodies a living sacrifice.” Our everyday, commonplace life can be a living sacrifice of love for God. Nothing is wasted when it is given to Him – doing the dishes, walking the dog, working out – all of these things gain eternal consequences when we make ourselves a living sacrifice. The crosses we endure – whether they be small like a traffic jam or large like a cancer diagnosis – these sufferings, when made into a “living sacrifice”, become torrents of grace for our souls and for the healing of the world.

            One beautiful way to do that is to make a “Morning Offering”. This is a prayer that we pray at the beginning of the day to offer our day to God. A classic one goes like this: “O Jesus, through the Immaculate Heart of Mary, I offer You my prayers, works, joys and sufferings of this day for all the intentions of Your Sacred Heart, in union with the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass throughout the world, in reparation for my sins, for the intentions of all my relatives and friends, and in particular for the intentions of the Holy Father.” Thus, your whole day and everything in it becomes an act of love.

            The other way to make yourself a “living sacrifice” is to offer up everything to God. When you suffer, when you study, when you play sports, when you work, when you sleep – a ten-second prayer beforehand to say, “God, I give this to You, help me to do this for Your glory and in a way that pleases You” will elevate those actions from ordinary to momentous. They are no longer insignificant, because they are given over to the Lord, who uses our offering to sanctify ourselves and change the world.

            Too many people are miserable because their life is meaningless, because it is all about themselves. Your life only matters when you live it for something greater than you. Want to make a difference in this world and in eternity? Offer your life as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God.

Homily for Ordinary Time 21 - August 23, 2020

 

Homily for August 23, 2020

Twenty-First Sunday of Ordinary Time

The Powers of Hell Will Not Prevail

 

            I know a priest from Savannah, Georgia, who told me that one day, two ladies showed up at his parish, asking him to come bless their house. They explained that they thought their house was possessed. He went with them to the house, and they told him about all of the strange noises, cold winds, and a sinister presence. The ladies thought that the devil was involved in such creepy occurrences.

            After he blessed the house, he asked them what parish they attended, since he didn’t recognize the ladies. They responded, “Oh, Father, we’re Baptists!”

            Shocked, he replied, “Then why did you come to a Catholic priest, and not your Baptist preacher?”

            They replied, “Oh, don’t you Catholics deal with this kind of stuff?”

            He had to laugh, because it was true – we Catholics DO deal with Satan and evil head-on, because the Church has been given the authority to do so by Christ Himself.

            In reading this Gospel, what stood out to me is the line, “The gates of Hell will not prevail” against the Church. Often, we interpret that to mean that the Church will exist until the end of time – which is true. But it also means that the gates of Hell are going to try with all their might to prevail! We live in a spiritual battle, one with eternal consequences – and the gates of Hell, the powers of Satan, are trying to conquer the Church, your family, and your immortal soul.

            Satan tries to attack the Church through errors, heresy, scandal, and division. He likewise attacks the family through division, through family strife, or through sins like alcoholism or abuse or adultery. We have all experienced Satan’s power in our everyday lives through strong temptation, fear, confusion, and self-hatred.

            But thankfully God has given authority over Satan to the Church and to every baptized Christian. I want to look at three types of spiritual authority that God has given to us: in the Church, in the family, and as an individual Christian.

            The Church (through Peter) was given great authority. In the first century, not everyone had keys – the only person who had keys was the master of the house, the one with authority. And they would use those keys to lock the doors to keep out evildoers at night or when they were away on a journey.

            In the same way, the Church has been given the “keys of Heaven”, with authority over good and evil. Fr. Gabriel Amorth, the Vatican’s top exorcist who performed over 10,000 exorcisms in his lifetime, said that the two best weapons the Church has against Satan are…Confession and the Eucharist. If we stay close to these two Sacraments, we never need to fear the Evil One.

            But the Church also has other weapons. For example, its teachings are powerful weapons. Two of the tactics of the Evil One is ignorance and rebellion – so knowing our Church’s teachings and humbly obeying them will guarantee victory in the spiritual battle. The treasury of devotions in the Church such as the Rosary, Adoration, and Stations of the Cross are powerful means of grace, which is that supernatural power that conquers Satan. The Scriptures are also a powerful weapon (St. Paul calls it a “two-edged sword”), and the Church is the custodian of the Bible.

            Some people focus on things such as statues, blessings, and Holy Water in their fight against the Evil One. Yes, these are helpful, but only if you are serious about personally following the Lord and having a solid prayer life. One time a woman at another parish came to me with a five-gallon bucket, asking for Holy Water. I didn’t recognize her, so I asked her what she planned to do with the Holy Water. She said she wanted to give her children baths in it. I then asked if she attended Mass and she said no. So I refused her request and said, “Oh, my dear, going to Mass will do far more for your children’s soul than bathing them in holy water!” These sacramentals are meant to augment and not replace our living faith in Jesus.

            The Kingdom of Hell is not just trying to attack the Church, though – it is also trying to attack the “domestic Church” – which is what the Catechism calls the family! Satan hates families, because they are such a beautiful reflection of the Trinity – a life-giving community of love. But if the family is the Domestic Church, then parents are the priests of the domestic church, and they have authority to protect their children from evil and lead them on the path to holiness.

            In a particular way, you fathers and grandfathers are given a unique authority in the spiritual realm. A few years back I had the privilege of helping with an exorcism. It was a boy who had been adopted by Catholic parents who was struggling with full-blown possession. One thing that struck me deeply is how much the devil had to obey the authority of the father in particular. If the demon was manifesting itself, the mother could say, “In the Name of Jesus Christ, be silent!” but the demon would continue screaming and writhing around. But if the father commanded, “In the Name of Jesus Christ, be silent!”, then the demon would quiet down. Demons know who has spiritual authority over them.

            Parents can exercise this authority by blessing their children, interceding for them, bringing them to the Sacraments, teaching them about the Lord, and keeping evil out of their homes (how many of you parents have put filters or restrictions on your children’s cell phones? You need to do that to prevent tremendous evils from influencing them!).

Finally, every Christian is also given a certain amount of authority over Satan, by virtue of their baptism. Did you know that when you were baptized, you became a priest, prophet, and king? You are granted a share in Christ’s kingship, which means authority over the devil in your own life.

            So, if you find yourself in a particularly strong temptation, rebuke it in the name of the Lord Jesus! Every baptized Christian can say, “In the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ, I rebuke the evil spirit of lust…greed…anger…and I command you to leave me.” If you are overtaken by a powerful sense of fear, sadness, or shame, command it to leave in the Name of the Lord Jesus. When I was writing this homily, my computer froze up many times and came close to crashing – I invoked Jesus’ Name upon this document, and all went smoothly after that.

            My friends, it is true that the gates of Hell are trying desperately to destroy the Church, the world, our families, and our souls. But we have been given authority over these evil spirits. We only need to use that authority and the weapons provided to us by God, and the victory will be assured.

Homily for Ordinary Time 20 - August 16, 2020

 

Homily for August 16, 2020

Twentieth Sunday of Ordinary Time

God Who Embraces All Nations

 

            When I was a teen, I used to go on week-long retreats with my family to an amazing place that has a seriously embarrassing name: Catholic Familyland. Yes, that’s a real place, and things always got cringey when my friends asked where my family went for vacation…Catholic Familyland…but the place was actually really great, and I grew so much in my faith during those week-long vacation/retreats.

            For a few years, Cardinal Francis Arinze joined us there. One time, he led a question-and-answer session for all of us, both youth and parents. My brother spoke up and asked, “Being from Nigeria, did you ever experience racism within the Church?”

            The cardinal pondered for a moment and replied, “The Church is filled with human beings, who are sinners, and the sin of racism is certainly present in some members of the Church. But the Church is also universal and God’s love encompasses all nations.”

            Our readings today speak about a hot-button issue that is as contemporary as today’s headlines – racism and welcoming other cultures. Jesus has a powerful encounter with a Canaanite woman – a woman of another race, culture, and religion – whose faith in Him is strong. Is Jesus being racist by refusing her request? Of course not – rather, the Lord is trying to show His disciples that having Jewish heritage is not as important as genuine faith – which is open to people of all backgrounds. Jesus challenges the woman to show the strength of her faith, and she persists in acknowledging that Jesus is “the Master” – a contrast to the frequent faithlessness of the disciples!

            Paul, too, writing to the Romans, addresses the racial divide present in the early Christian community. Again, it’s between Jews and non-Jews (Gentiles), but Paul says that in Christ, God has had mercy on all – every race and tribe and tongue and nation – so the Jews had no reason to boast of their special status before God.

            We are now seeing racism again in the news. But most of the solutions that are proposed today, such as with the Black Lives Matter movement, are utterly ineffective at solving the issue of racism (and in many cases, they lead to deeper division and animosity). This is because such secular organizations are not looking at the problem through a Christian understanding of race. I want to make three points about how Christians should look at racism.

            First, racism is a sin. That seems simple, but many modern people don’t want to use that word. It’s often called “institutional racism” or “systemic racism”. But that misses the point – racism is a sin found in the human heart and soul before it’s present in any institution or system. So if it’s a sin of the human soul, the antidote is the same for any other sin: repentance and Christian charity.

            Second, the reason why we should treat others with equality and love is because we are all made in God’s image and likeness. This fundamental fact has been completely overlooked by the totally-secular Black Lives Matter movement! Yet this was the reason for the success of the Civil Rights Movement in the 1960s – Martin Luther King Jr. and other civil rights leaders emphasized that we are equal before God since we were all created in His image. Without this fundamental principle, what unites us? All secular efforts to heal our nation’s divides will remain inadequate without a reference to God and our status as His beloved sons and daughters.

            Finally, what unites us most fully is our Catholic Faith. The word “Catholic” means universal, and truly this Church has the power to unite us! One summer, I hiked the Camino of Santiago de Compostella, the ancient pilgrimage route across northern Spain to the bones of St. James. Along those 498 miles, over 33 days, I attended Mass in six different languages (English, Italian, French, Spanish, Portuguese…and Korean!) Truly a microcosm of the universal Church!

            Which is why it is unfortunate that some people have tried to destroy statues of Jesus or Mary, or St. Junipero Serra or St. Damien of Molokai, claiming that they were “too white” or symbols of white supremacy. Nothing could be further from the truth! Jesus came to unite all races into one Faith – the Catholic Church. Have you ever seen the Basilica of St. Peter’s in Rome? The colonnade, which is those pillars that surround the Basilica, were purposely designed by Bernini to look like arms, as the arms of the Church are embracing the entire world.

            When the Spanish conquistadores came to Mexico, they were accompanied by missionaries, who had very little success. After decades, only 10% of Mexico had converted to the Catholic Faith. But in 1531, one person visited Mexico and converted the whole nation – the Blessed Mother, who appeared as an Aztec maiden at Guadalupe. Within ten years, 90% of the country had converted to Catholicism. Since the Blessed Mother appeared as one of them, they realized that the Catholic Faith was not just a “white man’s religion”.  Rather, they too were welcome to become Catholic.

            Mary has often appeared in different cultures: In 1981, she appeared in Kibeho, Rwanda; in 1798 she appeared as an Oriental woman in La Vang, Vietnam. In 1973, she appeared in Akita, Japan, under the title of Our Lady of All Nations. I believe that Mary wants to tell her children that she is the mother of us all!

            My friends, it is tragic that racism is still present within our society. But it will not be healed through the secular, liberal Black Lives Matter movement. It will only be healed when we see it through a Christian lens: recognizing that racism is a sin that needs to be repented of, realizing that we are all created in the image and likeness of God, and encouraging all races to find their home within the Catholic Faith. God rejoices in the diversity that He has created, knowing that through Christ and His Church, we can be united in that diversity.

Homily for the Nineteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time - August 9, 2020

Homily for August 9, 2020

Nineteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

The Power of Silence

 

            Once a farmer lost his pocketwatch while working in his barn. It had been given to him by his grandfather, and so had great sentimental value. He searched high and low in the barn, looking everywhere, turning things upside down, making a great racket. But after a couple hours, he could not find the watch anywhere.

            He found a few neighborhood kids and offered them a fine reward if any of them could find the watch. They likewise tore the place apart, looking up and down the barn, in every nook and cranny, sifting through the entire haystack, but to no avail. All left, disappointed, except for one young boy.

            The boy begged the farmer for one last chance to find the watch. The farmer shrugged and said, “Sure,” but was exhausted by the ordeal and headed home for some rest. But only a short time later the boy showed up on his front porch with the watch. The farmer was amazed and asked, “How did you manage to find the watch in a few minutes when we spent hours searching?”

            The boy responded, “I just stood there in silence, listening to the watch tick. In silence, it was so much easier to hear and I could tell the direction of the sound.”

            Indeed – how much you can hear in silence! When the cacophony of noise subsides, we hear the powerful voice of God. As CS Lewis wrote, “In Heaven there is music and there is silence; in Hell there is only noise.”

            Elijah was fleeing from a queen who wanted him killed – so he fled to this cave, seeking direction and intimacy with God, in silence. Jesus had experienced a similarly stressful and life-threatening situation. Earlier in the chapter, John the Baptist had just been killed by Herod, who was now seeking to see Jesus. Jesus for His part had just multiplied bread and fish for five thousand people, causing such a riot that they tried to come and make Him king. This was not why He came – He was not intending to be a political king, and this crowd-enthusiasm was dangerous since the authorities would see Jesus as a threat that must be destroyed – so He needed some time of peace, to seek intimacy with His Father.

            So Jesus sends the crowds away – and He sends His disciples away. The word in Greek literally means that Jesus “ordered” or “compelled” the disciples to leave – He ached for this time to be alone, in silence, with the Father. Twice the Gospel writer emphasizes that Jesus was “alone” – the Lord Himself needed time of silence to hear His Father’s voice.

            If Elijah and Jesus need silence, so do we!

            Silence can be immensely powerful. We take a moment of silence before sporting events to remember tragedies; people sometimes take a vow of silence in order to protest an injustice. Many religious communities speak very little – the Carthusians, for example, only speak freely once per week, and keep absolute silence for twelve hours every day.

            Why is silence so powerful? In silence we encounter ourselves, and we encounter God. We have nowhere to hide from either when we enter into silence.

Once, I challenged a group of teens to spend ten minutes in silence per day. One girl looked as if I had asked her to cut off her right arm. She gasped, “I could never do that!” I said, “Why not?” And she responded, “Because I am afraid of what I might hear.”

In silence we can’t be fake; we can’t hide; we can’t pretend to be who we’re not. Silence doesn’t care about your bank account or PhD or Instagram followers. Silence strips it all away so we are alone with God. And God communicates Himself in silence, not in noise – if you want to know Him, be silent. You cannot have a real relationship with God if you do not have daily silence in your life.

It can be hard to find silence these days! On average, the American adult spends 11 hours per day staring at a screen – this “digital noise” takes away the silence we crave. But if you wish to have a relationship with God, to hear Him and be with Him, we must make time for real silence, every day.

Cardinal Robert Sarah recently published an absolutely phenomenal book called “The Power of Silence” in which he writes: “The greatest things are accomplished in silence…Through silence, we return to our heavenly origin, where there is nothing but calm, peace, repose, silent contemplation, and adoration of the radiant face of God.”

In silence, God shows us His love. In silence, He reveals His will. In silence, the Holy Spirit convicts our hearts of sin. In silence, we discover that peace that we long for.

So I wish to challenge you to carve out 10-15 minutes of silence each day to be alone with God. Turn off the TV and put away the iPhone; take a walk or hole yourself up in your room; order the kids to depart just as Jesus ordered His disciples; and just listen in silence, love God in silence. Silence will change your life.

If Jesus, the Son of God, needed silence – so do we. As St. John of the Cross said, “What we need most in order to make progress [in the spiritual life] is to be silent before this great God with our appetite and with our tongue, for the language he best hears is silent love.”

Homily for the Eighteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time - August 2, 2020

Homily for August 2, 2020

Eighteenth Sunday of Ordinary Time

What Can Separate Us from the Love of Christ?

 

            “What can separate us from the love of Christ?” St. Paul asks this rhetorical question in the second reading. Nothing will separate us – not trial or distress, not anguish or suffering, not coronavirus or political upheaval. Those united to Christ “conquer overwhelmingly” all the trials and tribulations of this passing world.

            But we live in a world that grows crazier by the day. Why do we not experience that peace of Christ’s love? Why do we doubt that He has conquered? Two thoughts.

            First, do we focus more on the love of Christ or the trials of this world? Somewhere in the middle of April I went on a media fast for a week – no social media, no 24-hour news, no political opinion pieces. My mood improved drastically! We feel like we have to stay connected to Facebook or Instagram or CNN or Fox News…and most of the news is bad news. Do you want the peace of knowing that Christ wins in the end? Don’t dwell on the negativity that we see on social media. Yes, stay informed – but after ten minutes, get off the internet and spend a half-hour in the Word of God!

            Did you know that St. Thomas Aquinas classified curiosity as a vice? We usually think about curiosity as a good thing, but it was curiosity that led to the fall of our First Parents. By “curiosity”, Aquinas means having a burning desire to know about every scandal, every outrage, every controversy, every clickbait headline, every article of bad news – most of which doesn’t help us at all. Aquinas says that knowledge should always be seeking our Ultimate End – God – and if it doesn’t tend towards God, then it drags us away from Him.

            So, if you want to know deep within your soul that Christ has conquered and that nothing can separate you from His love, separate yourselves from the constant steady stream of social media and news networks which will make us think that evil is winning!

            Second, there is one thing that St. Paul does not include in his list of things that are unable to separate us from God’s love – and that thing is sin. Sin CAN separate us from the love of God – not that God loves us less when we sin, but that we cannot receive that love because we have put up a wall between us and God. So the solution, then, is to make sure our consciences are clear through Confession. If we feel a lack of peace in our own life, it’s usually a sign that we have strayed from God – return to Him through repentance and Confession – and then we will experience the peace of His love.

            My friends, many of us are very concerned about the direction the world is headed in. We can be troubled by the political unrest, anti-Christian ideologies, riots, economic uncertainty, this virus crisis, and so much more. But nothing can separate us from the love of Christ and the peace that He brings – our confidence is in Him. So disconnect from unnecessary bad news and social media, and make sure your conscience is clean in Confession, and you will have within your soul the peace of God.

Homily for the Seventeenth Sunday of Ordinary Time - July 26, 2020

Homily for Ordinary Time 17

July 26, 2020

Wisdom

 

            I’ll never forget the first time I told anyone that I was thinking about becoming a priest. I was 14 years old, and my best friend Billy and I were lying in our tent at Boy Scout summer camp, and we were talking about what we wanted to be in the future. He shared his dream of becoming an anesthesiologist (he’s now a civil engineer) and then he asked what I wanted to do. I thought, “Oh no, should I tell him?” I was very nervous, but got up the courage to say, “Well…I was thinking about becoming a priest.”

            There was a very, very long pause before Billy replied, “Joe, you’re not THAT ugly, I know you can get a girlfriend!”

            For him, the priesthood was just something that ugly bachelors did who couldn’t get married. What a far cry from what the priesthood actually is – a life consecrated to the Lord to lead souls to Heaven!

            Contrast that with another friend from my childhood, Steven, who had a very deep faith. He was a couple years younger than me, so I got my driver’s license first. When I was telling him about getting my driver’s license, he said, “Oh, Joe, that’s great! Now you can get to daily Mass!” My response was something like, “Uh…yeah…I’m not sure that’s what I’ll be doing with my driver’s license!”

            For Steven, the freedom of driving was meant to help me grow in holiness. For me, it was about getting out of the house. He was the wise one – I was the fool!

            Wisdom, according to St. Augustine, “is the contemplation of divine things.” It means understanding this world properly in light of eternity. It is one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit, a gift given to Solomon in today’s first reading. He wants to be able to rule Israel rightly – not for his own benefit, but benefitting the people. In other words, he wants to see his kingly rule in the light of Heaven. And God grants this request for wisdom lavishly!

            This theme of wisdom is also present in the Gospel. Consider this pearl of great price – this pearl was probably sold in a marketplace, and many people probably walked past it without knowing its true value. Finally, someone with a trained eye – a merchant, it says in Scripture – recognizes that this pearl was tremendously valuable, and purchases it. He sees it from a different perspective and realizes what’s valuable and what is cheap.

            In the same way, a truly wise person will be able to evaluate the things of this world to know what is truly valuable, and what is worthless. Let’s take a look at some things of everyday life to see the wise way to view them:

            Money – the world says grab as much as you can, for money guarantees happiness. Wisdom says that money is a gift given to us by God so that we can live and be generous to others, and we have to steward it rightly.

            Prayer – the world says that prayer is a boring waste of time. Wisdom says that prayer is our essential connection with the Lord, Who we desperately need more than the air we breathe.

            Suffering – the world says that we should avoid suffering at all costs, since it is worthless. Wisdom sees in suffering an opportunity to grow in virtue, to have our souls purified, as we unite our suffering to Christ’s cross for the salvation of the world.

            Our Body – I once saw the world’s view of the body summed up on a humorous bumper sticker that read, “My body is not a temple, it’s an amusement park!” But wisdom says that our bodies are not our own, they have been purchased at a price, and thus we should glorify God in our bodies as living temples of the Holy Spirit.

            Work – the world takes one of two extremes: either we become workaholics and make our lives revolve around work, or we see it as a drudgery just to get a paycheck. Wisdom, on the other hand, sees work as an opportunity to develop our gifts and talents for the service and benefit of human beings, united to Christ Who Himself was a laborer.

            Leadership – the world encourages leaders to seek after power, to get their way and force others to do their will. But the example of Christ is one of a leader who serves in humility.

            Faith – the world sees faith in God as a crutch for the weak, or perhaps as belief in a comforting myth. By contrast, wisdom recognizes that our faith is based on the testimony of men and women who actually saw the Risen Christ, and who died for that belief – and thus our faith is not blind but makes sense.

            Sex – the world sees sex as a fun way to spend an evening. Looking at it with Christian wisdom, we see that it is the most powerful way in which we can show our love for our spouse – an action that makes incarnate one’s wedding vows, and which allows us to become like God in potentially co-creating a new life.

            Meaning of Life – a priest where I was growing up once said that the first question God is going to ask you when you die is, “Did you have a good time?” But this is the world’s foolishness, not the Lord’s wisdom. Life is not about having a good time. Wisdom says that our life is given to us so that we can know, love, and serve God here so we can be eternally with Him in Heaven forever.

            Death – the world sees death as the end, as a tragic closure to this life…and ironically the world also believes that pretty much everyone goes to Heaven. We as Christians have the wisdom to know that death is a passageway into a new and more abundant life, but that we must pray for the dead to be cleansed of their sins in Purgatory.

            My friends, St. Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 2 that “We speak a message of wisdom among the [spiritually] mature, but not the wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing.” The follies of this world are empty, passing. Real wisdom, a life lived well, consists in knowing how to evaluate all things in light of God – seeing the world through His eyes. Then we will know what is truly valuable, like the pearl of great price or the treasure in the field.