Homily for January
28, 2019
Catholic Schools
Week
How Do You Define
Success?
She was
a young girl, only nine years old when she died of pneumonia. She never learned
to read. She lived in poverty, working as a shepherd girl and living in a
shack. She practiced great penances such as giving away her food to children
poorer than her, and suffering her illnesses without complaint.
He, on
the other hand, was an accomplished CEO and visionary of one of the greatest
companies in the world. He was a billionaire, a household name, a man who
dabbled in Zen Buddhism and whatever other spirituality was in vogue that
season. He had so much money that he would often use drugs just for the heck of
it, knowing that with his position, he would never get caught. He cheated his
friends and his employers out of their legitimate pay, often parked in
handicapped spots even though he wasn’t handicapped, and abandoned his wife and
daughter when he got tired of them. He ruled the world – pretty much everything
and everyone bowed to him – there was no desire of his that he couldn’t have.
Of these
two lives – St. Jacinta Marta and Apple founder Steve Jobs – which one would be
considered a successful life? How do you define success?
This is
what I ask us to consider this morning. You may have noticed that our motto for
Catholic Schools Week this year is “Learn, Serve, Lead, Succeed”. This motto
could also be in the hallways of Westhill or Stamford High, or on the tagline
of any insurance company or bank. There’s nothing in that motto that really
sets us apart as Catholics – until we dive deeper into the definition of these
words – and particularly the word “success.”
The
world considers successful the man or woman who is at the top of their game.
Good job, good money, nice house, beautiful family. And those things are good – they’re just not the highest
good. But for too many people, that
is how they define success: get good grades, win athletic trophies, get into a
good college, into a well-paying and respected job, get married to a beautiful
spouse and settle down and live your life, then retire early and play golf in
Florida. And that’s it.
But I
would say that success is about so much more than that. It’s more about who you become than about what you do or
what you have. St. Jacinta Marta accomplished nothing very significant in her
life, according to the world’s view of success. She was one of the three
children who, in 1917, saw Mary the Mother of God appear to them in Fatima,
Portugal. Over the course of six months, Mary appeared six times to them,
teaching them about holiness and urging them to share the message of prayer and
penance with the world. At the final vision, on October 13, 1917, over seventy
thousand people had gathered to see if these three children were telling the
truth about actually seeing Mary. This great crowd saw a true miracle – the sun
began to dance in the sky, change colors, and plummet to the earth. This was
recorded with photographs and even by atheistic newspaper reporters.
But St.
Jacinta, the young girl who had the visions, didn’t fit anyone’s profile of a
“successful” individual. She was poor, illiterate, simple, often-sick, and too
young. She had no “bright future” ahead of her. She died at the age of nine,
having done nothing with her life except prayer and sacrifices. But now she is
a saint – and that is the truest kind of success anyone can achieve.
Because
all of the worldly definitions of success don’t matter one bit in eternity.
Jacinta became like Christ through
her prayer and sacrifices – she allowed God’s grace to transform her and make
her holy.
I was
blessed to go to Fatima in 2012 for a week of retreat. It was a beautiful time,
to be able to pray right in the spot that Mary appeared. But after a few days,
I wanted to explore a bit, so I started wandering outside of the town, walking
along a dirt road to another town a couple miles away. There, I found a very
simple church – white walls, plain glass, just a simple house of worship. I
went in, and there above the baptismal font was a very simple sign – “On this
spot was baptized St. Jacinta Marta”. I was moved to tears – this was so…ordinary. It looked like any parish
church in America. Simple, not a tourist attraction, but just an ordinary
church…and it produced a saint. Nobody would have expected that this ordinary
church would be the place where a saint was baptized, where she received her
first Communion, where she spent long hours in prayer before the Eucharist.
Could
ordinary places produce extraordinary saints? Could Trinity Catholic High
School produce saints? I look at this excellent ad campaign “Imagine You” and
wonder – what would it look like it for one of the posters to say, “So-and-so,
TCHS Class of 2021, Saint”? As the author Leon Bloy once said, “The only true
tragedy in life is to not become a saint.”
This is
what makes Catholic Schools different – we define success differently than
Westhill or Stamford High. Not only do we want you to achieve a lot, to win
those sports trophies, to get into a good college – we also want you to become holy – a follower of Jesus and a
saint. And no matter what else happens, if you have become holy, that will be a
successful life.