Homily for Trinity
Sunday
May 31, 2015
The Trinity and
the Family
One day
St. Augustine, the brilliant theologian and Church Father, was trying to figure
out the Trinity. He was deep in thought, walking along the beaches along the
Mediterranean Sea, when all of a sudden he came upon a boy who was taking a
bucket of water, and dumping it into a hole he had dug in the sand. He then
went back to the ocean, got another bucketful of water, and dumped it again
into the hole. He kept doing this – filling the bucket from the sea, then
emptying it into the hole. After some time, St. Augustine asked him, “What are
you doing?”
The boy
answered, “I’m going to fit the ocean into this hole.”
Augustine
laughed and said, “That’s impossible! The ocean will never fit into your little
hole.”
The boy
looked at him most seriously and said, “It will be easier for me to fit the
ocean into this hole than for you to figure out the mystery of the Trinity.”
Augustine realized that the boy was actually a vision of an angel.
A
mystery of our faith, however, doesn’t mean that we can’t say anything about
it. Mystery simply means that we can never say everything about it. It’s like the boy and the ocean – he could
always go back and take more water from the ocean; he’ll never finish emptying
it out. Likewise, every time we think about a mystery of our faith – like the
depths of God’s love, the redemption of the Cross, the joys of Heaven, or the
Trinity – we will always be able to discover new and deeper aspects of these truths
that we believe.
In a
nutshell, the mystery of the Trinity means that we believe in one God, Who is
Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. It’s not three gods, but it’s three Persons in
one God. It’s kind of like water – we have liquid water, steam, and ice. All
three are water, but they are water acting in different ways. Likewise, the Father,
Son, and Spirit are all God – but they have distinct characteristics and they
act in different ways. The Father is the Creator, the Son redeemed us on the
Cross, and the Spirit dwells within our souls to make us holy.
But the Trinity isn’t just some
out-there, abstract thought. It has very practical consequences, because there
is something on earth that resembles the Trinity very closely: the human
family.
You see, the Trinity shows us
that God is not some isolated, anti-social individual sitting in a distant
heaven somewhere. The fact that God is Father, Son, and Spirit means that He is
a community of love. The Father loves
the Son perfectly and gives all things to Him, and the Son loves the Father
perfectly and gives His very life back to the Father as a gift. This love is so
intense that the Holy Spirit proceeds from their love.
That is the same way a family is
supposed to operate. A family is supposed to be a community of self-giving
love. The husband must love his wife, pouring out his life in service and sacrifice
for her. The wife, in turn, opens herself to her husband in vulnerable trust
and love, giving her life to him as well. This love is so intense that it can
create a third person – a child, the result of loving self-gift.
The Trinity’s love for each
other naturally spilled over, so They created the world on which to lavish
their love. Likewise, a human family is supposed to be a place where God’s love
is channeled into the world.
A lot of modern mainstream media
want to redefine the human family in all sorts of bizarre ways, and they often
reject Catholic teaching about family life, human sexuality, and love itself.
But when we see the human family as a reflection of the Trinity – the great
dignity of the family – then we can begin to see that Church teaching makes
sense. Married love must be free, faithful, total, and fruitful, mirroring the
Trinity’s free, total, faithful, and fruitful love for each other. Human
sexuality must be open to life, since life and love are inseparable. Marriage
must be permanent, because a community of
love should not be destroyed. Children and parents must be willing to give
of themselves in sacrifice to each other, just as the Father, Son, and Spirit
are constantly pouring Themselves out for the Others. In a word, a faithful
Catholic family is supposed to be a witness to the world of the love of God!
My friends, allow God’s grace to
transform your family, that you may mirror the Trinity!